Good Parts

I'm one of those people whose love language is words of affirmation. Words mean a lot to me. Unfortunately, a lot of people, like myself, dwell on negative things that are said about them. It's easy to complain about it and blow steam off on others when that happens. I'd like to be allowed to celebrate the good things that are said. I want to celebrate the fact that God has been good to me, and that He has given me certain gifts. Tonight, in our cell group's "one another time" each of us wrote something we appreciate about the others. These are the words that were gifted to me:

"You are so gifted at making others feel comfortable , loved and welcomed. This is why you're so good at the ministries you're in. Thank you for doing this for me." Joel

"Ben! I love Ben's warm heart! I really appreciate that your way of talking and your attitude shows how you care about people, and it really shows that you think of others first. It's also true when you are explaining difficult things from the Bible. Thank you!" Akiko

"I love how you are able to make people enjoy themselves. I think that's your gift. I always admire your fun part, but not only fun but you are also good at listening, so that people can talk to you. Thank you for being my brother and friend." Rumiko

"I think you're really natural. You're able to help people have fun and you're kind. Recently you've listened to me a lot and it's really helped. Thank you!" Gaku

"You're always joyful, and able to help people have a good time. And, I'm really glad because we can also have serious conversations." Yoshinori

Each of us have strengths and weaknesses. Today as I thought about each of my friends, I was so thankful for each of them, and in turn touched that I could bring a blessing into their lives as well. Thank you God for love, community, and hearts soft enough to build each other up.